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Over the years, I’ve noticed that many people and groups claim to have the "perfect solution" for how to live!! These paths are usually driven by different motivations - some genuine, others less so - and many are rooted in self-interest. The world is full of passionate believers; each convinced they know the right way to go. The right path is different for everyone.

The enthusiasm displayed by some true believers is quite amazing. Despite the personas and visual appearance at any moment we really are the same basic human being. Made from the same stuff, all people laugh like us, they cry like us. If we can begin to peel away the layers of opinions and thick coats of weather hardened defensive life explanations, definitions, and concrete hard attitudes all those years of other people’s beliefs and behaviors smothering you has been. You may have doubts but where you go is totally up to you. Being open to all people’s belief system makes life more harmonious and interesting. With much non-judgmental inquisitiveness I want to know all about every religion and philosophy in the world. I can feel people’s compassions for their core beliefs. I don’t know the perfect solution only ideas and tools that make our days easier and less complicated. I stay away from recommending this way or that because I don't know. I have found useful tools and methods worth discussing and remembering to see where they really go.

I take a different approach. I listen, absorb what resonates, and leave behind what doesn’t. Life, for me, is about embracing the journey - discovering new things, evolving along the way, and striving to make the world around me better. I spend a significant part of my time thinking about my love and gratitude for my companion, and beautiful woman, my wife!!!.

Through the blog, the contact form, or even direct emails and chats, I will enjoy talking with you.

You’ll find my sense of Hughmor can be seen in the blog. Anytime a story comes to mind I’m writing it. No chronological order. Just tales as I recall those moments.

The goal for this piece of work is to becomes a steppingstone no matter how big or small to support or clarify decisions about a person’s path of in life.

This is a place where exploration is encouraged, growth is celebrated, and generosity - of spirit and knowledge- finds room to flourish.

The Greek word for happiness is “Eudaimonia”. In its translation we find it also means: fulfilment, living a good (moral) life, human flourishing, and moral or spiritual success. You will find here many of the results of my search for the path to a happy life.

I have to take a reality break here and probably every once and awhile. I’m delving into memories and feeling the same tight stomach, crazed thoughts about projecting every scenario if I would have stayed with that particular woman at that time. I’m a bit arrogant which isn’t the nicest quality to have but sometimes you just deal with it.

Well instead of waiting for an ABOUT section let me tell you a bit right now. This is not a cop out. it just to explains some things. My father was killed when i was seven years old. We went flying for the 4th of July and I went up. I could barely see out of the cockpit but oh such fun. We landed and my father gets in and they fly around a bit and the engine starts sputtering and they spun into the ground 100 yards or less right in front of me. there’s a lot more to this experience but the reason I brought it up is because I had a horrible habit of leaving relationships and devastating some women out of the blue. I always came up with an excuse that made me leave. I was abandoning before I could get abandon again. I was so mean and I’ll never be able to somehow make up to those people. I’m sorry to my heart and soul and this one takes as a constant task get into my head OK don’t get stuck in the past. That will be covered shortly.

I have experienced many moments worth looking at and applying the topics of this site. Ethics, Virtue, Happiness , Quantum Theory, Light, but this time filtered through various needed criteria. This to be a tribute for posterity so we can have a place to get an idea of ethics and attitude adjustment techniques in this investigation of how to live the happiest life we can create.

This repository is more than a mere collection; it is an act of gratitude for the wisdom that history has bestowed upon us, a testament to our own self-discovery, and an expression of love for humanity. It is our collective responsibility to assemble, document, and disseminate the truths that bind us. If there is a duty of each one of us to show our appreciation, gratitude, and respect to those that have gone before us this is my way of pitching in my part.

I think of life as being on a journey, an adventure - constantly learning, meeting new people, and uncovering treasures along the path, including falling in love hundreds of times with multitudes of people, places, and things. I’m making decisions daily and choosing my path. What happens to me are my decisions! It’s exciting to have a whole day to plan and to play. An imperative mindset to develop is to believe in yourself. Sure, we all make mistakes because we haven’t had the opportunity to develop the skills and learn the lessons we need to choose differently yet. Be gentle with yourself. It will happen if you walk the walk.

It’s not like you have to become obsessed with these changes so you neglect or change your lifestyle to rapidly. Chill man and women, you want to begin to think that things happen in your life when you need them and call it what you like but I have been through time in my life where I was so despondent it was horrible, but the Universe somehow got me through without really experiencing too much hardship. But I made it and of course i has a tremendous amount of gratitude and almost now it’s happened so often I don’t really let things bother me. cause I know the Universe will come through. If this is all garbage that I’ve contrived in my own mind it’d so much better than freaking out when those occasional times may appear I know that deciding to think positive is the way to go

Things are changing because you know what it takes and are willing to trudge the way to happy destiny. Stick to it. Never stop growing.

Now there is the idea of teachers and lessons that somehow appear at times when we are ready for them. You may not recognize their importance until you’ve felt the change in you because of their gift they bring. Sometimes those gifts are the most painful debilitating times in your life. I’ve learned so much about life being slapped in the face. Once through the lesson and the trauma it becomes a part of you and once again, we notice the same realization of these things’ years and years ago in the Greek minds.

One of my favorite analogies is to think of a person that always treated you poorly when growing up. They showed no respect or value in you and when they were around you felt like you were walking on eggshells waiting for insults and critical words. Now think of a person in your life that was always supportive, complimented your behavior and made you feel good whenever they were around. Which one of those are you to yourself?

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